Alright, I wanted to keep this private and not drop any names, but apparently he doesn’t feel the same.
benevolentsecrets , the male snowman cosplayer, has been contacting me although I have made it clear to him I want nothing to do with him. I have blocked him in every way possible, yet he is sending me messages on Tumblr and tried messaging my boyfriend to cause issues between us.
Months ago he told me he was going to seek a relationship with a boy who sexually harassed me online repetitively. Sid is claiming I didn’t want them to be friends and tried to control him in that way, when actually he only talked to me of aiming for a relationship and bitched me out when I reminded him I didn’t like the guy[Nick] who was harassing me.
Now he’s copypasted this ask and is trying to make me sound like a controlling, manipulative person. I’m not trying to start a fight but he’s sending this to people and trying to turn them against me
Unfortunately Amanda is choosing to be immature and cause drama. She left out my response which I sent as an ask: http://winterforpolandandfrance.tumblr.com/post/95924534328/i-know-you-had-a-problem-with-that-fat-pervy-dude-if#permalink-notes
”I know you had a problem with that fat pervy dude. If you brought up Nick, then I honestly forgot all about the issues with him. If you didn’t want to be rails you could have ended it anytime, but we were at least good friends. Just because I made a stupid mistake shouldn’t change that. Regardless, I just want us to be civil and friendly at the convention without any stupid drama. Please try to forgive me so that things can be chill. -Sid”
Her response:Do you not understand? I am not interacting with you. Fuck right off and don’t come back.
Looks like I have to wait until you mature enough so that we can return to being at least friendly. In the mean time I will work on the faults I have such as manipulation and being rude, which is not intended. Sorry if I was a bad friend/moirail to you and eventually I will learn.
Btw, wasn’t trying to turn people against you. You were doing that on your own via your reactions to my attempt at reconciling. Just wanted to update my friends on my mini quest to regain your friendship, which sounds like it must be delayed for years.
Thanks for ending the moirallegiance, but no thank you for the sudden dropping and lack of contact when I thought I was just giving you a break to adjust or whatever. Hope that things can be forgiven in due time.